Today there were more complaints from Hannah(H). She didn't complain about her hand hurting, but she is taking for ever to finish her assignments. When i told her she had to be finished in 20 minutes she respectfully asked, "Or else, what?". Stumped by her direct question, I tried to recover by responding, "Or else, you will scrub the bathroom floors and then come back and finish." She finished, but I need incentives for her, not consequences. I personally operate based on obligation. If it doesn't HAVE TO be done, I don't like to do it. I am on a quest to find what motivates H and myself. :)
I introduced Elizabeth(E) to blanket time today. He response was, "I, don't, like, blanket time!" I explained to her that it was not time-out and that she could play with a special toy the next time she sat on the blanket. When the five minutes were up, I congratulated her and gave her a big hub and kiss and the she said, "I want my treat now." *sigh* I told she didn't get a treat, just hugs and kisses. She seamed to be okay with that and then ran off excitedly to tell Audrey that she was done.